The Fresh Perspective is the Best Perspective

{Conversation Partner #6}

     Wow.  It is still mindboggling to me that there is exactly one week left of school.  Looking back at my semester, I am in awe of the amount of new experiences I have had the opportunity to be apart of, the amount of knowledge I have gained, and the sweet friends that I have had the pleasure of meeting.  

     Most significantly, I am incredibly blessed with Noor’s friendship.  Thankfully, she will be coming back next semester for the IEP Program, so I will still get to see her regularly.  We have become so close over these past few months that I cannot imagine my semester without our Monday lunches, jam sessions, and habitual laughing sprees. 

     Thinking back to the beginning of the semester, I acknowledge that I had somewhat of a closed mind, from having to meet with someone from a different country (that I did not know at all), to sharing my thoughts on a public blog.  Yet, these experiences helped challenge my way of thinking and altered my perspective on life drastically.

     I honestly think that a fresh perspective is the best perspective.  What I mean by that, is when one goes into a situation with an open, unbiased outlook, they are more likely to get more out of that experience, than if they were to go into it with a negative one.

     Although I came into this conversation partner experience with a closed mind at first, I quickly shifted my perspective when I realized that I was going to get as much out of the program as I put into it.  I began to look forward to my meetings with Noor and maximized our time together.  I noticed our similarities more than our differences.  I asked her questions about her life and she asked me questions about mine.  We both shared our favorite music and food with one another.  We laughed often, talked way too much, and celebrated our newfound friendship.

     As I read over some of my past conversation partner blogs, I realize that having a fresh perspective was a common theme in all of my posts.  Noor and I accepted each other’s differences.  We taught each other new aspects of our cultures and met each other’s friends.  I showed her my dorm and invited her to class.  She introduced me to her peers from the IEP Program and extended her home for dinner and Arabic coffee.  We both offered each other new experiences, which helped guide our learning and our friendship.  Yet, if one of us decided to not put in the time or effort to make this friendship work, it would not have worked at all.  Simply stated, fresh perspectives need to work both ways.  Luckily enough, they did.

     Looking forward, I hope to continue to use a fresh perspective throughout various life endeavors.  I hope that I will be able to take the positive experience I had with Noor and use it as a sweet reminder of what can happen if two different people put in the effort to make one strong relationship.  I truly believe a fresh perspective is the best perspective.